Sunday, 11 August 2013

My Baby Girl

I know a girl, She is from another world
She is a lonely girl in her world, in her own mind
Her long black hair, her big black eyes
I tuck her in at night, with the stories i write
She is my baby girl .. She is my baby girl ..

I know a girl, She is outta this world
The smile on her lips, make me move my hips
When she is on my mind, I feel like my memories being mined
If i could just reach upto sky , just to bring her a star
She is my baby girl ..She is my baby girl ..


I know a girl, She is from a different world
Her eyes so magnetizing, I just cant stop poetizing
Her touch so mesmerizing, I feel like as if spellbinding
I know who she is, My angel without her wings
She is my baby girl .. She is my baby girl ..

Friday, 2 August 2013

SUCCESS

Why do we fail even after so much of efforts we keep ?
Why do we succeed when some pressure is induced on us ?

Generally there are many factors that govern our success in our work, of those things two of the factors for achieving success are :
1.Never depend on your back up plans.
2.Throw the hat over the wall.

EXPLANATION OF POINT NO 1: Whenever we have a contingency / Back up plan we don't give our hundred percent in our work. We always relax that we have back up plans, but we don't realize that these plans make us lazy and reduces our efficiency in our work.

Consider a person who is in need of money. We can say he can try for a job & earn money as salary and back up plan would be taking as debt from friends. When you have such back up plans , most of us will be preferring the easy way of taking money from friends. Such a thought in mind always makes us lazy as when we go for interview we see so many candidates and thinks why to go through such a long process for money when easily available. Even if he gets the job he has to work hard and wait for his salary at the start of new month.He will not work efficiently as he has a option of friend giving  debt. So as less you can depend on back up plans  as good your life can be.

EXPLANATION OF POINT NO 2:Throw the hat over the wall -- it means when ever there is something important to you at stake you give your hundred percent in your work as you don't want to loose it.

There were two friends, who were going for playing with friends, they came across a big wall. They had  to cross the wall by climbing it over,there was no way around. One of the friend tried to climb the huge wall but didn't succeed even after several attempts. He decided to return back, then the other friend took his hat and threw it to the other side of wall. He then said, "now if you want the hat of yours, you have to climb the wall".
He know if he returns home without hat, his mom would beat him to death as it was costly hat and it was mom's favorite hat.He was very desperate about the hat so he started trying again n again and this time after few attempts he succeed.

We won't give our best until something important to us is at stake. When something important or something we love is at stake then we try to achieve it how so ever difficult it is. When something is at stake we prefer not to loose it so we give our 1000% to retain it.In every situation there is something at stake but we need to identify it . This applies in many fields also.

So if you want to be successful never depend on  back-up plan and always identify what is at stake, if you can identify you can at least give your full efforts..

Friday, 5 July 2013

Me,my cell and my lappy


Me , my cell and my lappy ,
la  la  la
when me and my cell are happy , dead goes my lappy ,
la  la  la
when me and my lappy are engaged , my cell gets damaged
la  la  la
when my lappy and cell are in condition , my energy at its termination
la  la  la

Wednesday, 3 July 2013

Mazed

There were a total of 150 members in the class room.For handling such a large class they had a special room having 5 boards with 5 projectors and one special board for teacher to write, which is known as the smart board.The teacher writes with a marker on the smart board, which is projected on the other boards.

        From the class of 150 students, we will talk about the guy with roll number 66. During the first year, he was sitting exactly at 3rd row right in front of the faculty.On his right side sat a boy(67) and left side was a girl(65).Some thing interesting about 66 is he was always in a dilemma of his condition - whether he wants to sleep or listen to the class.He tries to listen for half the class and used to feel sleepy in rest of the class.As we know most of the people have some questions for which they cant find any answer,this dilemma and the reason for that dilemma was the boys’ main concern.

                       He felt like whats going on with him.The first year passed but he was not able to find anything and all classes passed half sleeping and half trying to listen. Now he was more concerned about it.Still he was not able to figure out. Every time he thought of listening to the class, he could not concentrate. When first year passed, their places were changed and he went to one of the corners of the class room. After every year, it is a custom to change the seating arrangement of the students. 66 was happy as he thought a change in place would help him concentrate more.During the first year, he was thinking that he couldn’t concentrate more, as sir used to look into his eyes and teach along with a heavy breakfast he used to have in the morning.

               Then as the second year started he was fully excited,he was very attentive during the first few classes but after some time he was back to the same situation ,half listening half sleeping and this time he was really frustrated .66 wanted to find a permanent solution for this problem. Then one day he decided not to listen to the class at all and try to find some clues for his behavior.He started observing the class. He saw many people sleeping like hell in class and very few were writing and some were busy in their own world.
   
           Then he noticed the girl(65) beside him. She was writing what ever sir was saying point to point. He was in a shock to see how is she able to concentrate so much. She used to laugh at the comments 66 used to crack during class but and also used to note each and every word sir used to say.Then in shock which lead to a little eagerness in him to see what 67 was doing.He was dumb struck by seeing him. He was completely sleeping like a king in his bedroom, not caring about anything in the world.

         By seeing this, 66 had no words at all.66 was on little shock that day.He was thinking about the whole class and the things that he saw that day in class and that night he took a paper and pen and started writing..

" Why am I always in a dilemma of whether to sleep in class or listen to class?
Today i found my answer to the question, as it is the effect of my place of seat. On my right hand, the guy who always sleep nicely as if he is in his bed room without any fear and on the other hand, a girl who never sleeps and listens to all classes , more over writes her notes. Since i am in between them so i could never sleep nor listen to the class "

66 was feeling sleepy due to the influence of 67 and was feeling like listening class by seeing 65. So he was in a dilemma ...



Moral :- In this universe each and everything has an effect on others.Even if you don't want that but it will effect you in some or the other way. Everything that comes across in your life has some impact on your life which might be negative or positive. From our childhood we study that the environment and the surroundings you grow in, will have a major impact on you , which makes your behavioral and characteristic assumptions. Example , all parents ask us to make friendship with good students, toppers etc as they expect that their surroundings and the people around them can motivate us.


So always decide where you are going and which surrounding you want to live in...

Tuesday, 2 July 2013

Self-Worth


The following is as spoken by a speaker in a seminar -

" In my seminars, I often meet people who are going through testing times in life . Some unemployed , some underpaid and some still working hard to get a break in career. Despite there best attempts they have faced only rejection.
           Under such situations, it is quite natural that one starts doubting  his or her self-worth and feels that one does not deserve the great riches and wealth life has to offer."

He removed his wallet.

Said, " Take a look at this " he took out a crisp new Rs.1000 note and asked audience 
"How many of you want this?"

Everybody raised their hands anxiosly.

"Good . Now suppose I were to fold this note and offer to you. Would you still want it ?"

Crowd roared "Yes"

"Excellent" he continued, "Noe suppose I were to crush this note in my hand and then offer it to you, would you still want it? "

Crowd said "Yes!!"

"Yes , Why not!" said everyone

"Now , I am going  place this note on the floor and stamp on it with my shoe, would you still want it?"

"Yessss " they replied , feeling little irritated .

The speaker suddenly asked "WHY?" 

One of the participant said " bcoz whether you fold it , or crush it, or stamp it, the value of the note is still the same." 

Speaker eyes glittered. " This is exactly the point I want to convey. Please remember that each one of us is valuable, like this Rs. 1000 note. "


At times, Life can be really tough with us. It may squeeze us, dry us, crush us or even throw us in extremely tough times. But whatever life deals with us ....Our value remains the same ..

Never , ever discount your self-worth..